Thursday, July 7, 2011

Big teenage life drama....help me please?

Well I used to be friends with this girl, not best friends but friends
and she started seeing this guy Scott but she wasn't going out with
him...she had been seeing him for a few weeks but nothing serious was
going on between them and her friends even said she wasn't even that
interested in him.

Well I was at a party and this guy Scott and he was trying to get with
me all night and I said no loads of times because I said to him
"you're seeing laura" but in the end he convinced me (in my drunken
state) that he wasn't actually properly seeing her and he definitely
wasn't in a relationship or going out with her...we ended up sleeping
together and she found out that we had only KISSED (not slept
together) because I was way too scared to tell her, I apologised so
many times to her and cried about it (feeling so guilty) and she
forgave me and said she wasn't even that bothered about him anyway! So
we were still friends........

However, months on now...we are no longer friends...I was at a party a
few days ago and this other guy that she was apparently seeing a few
weeks ago (they were never official and aren't together now, also me
and Laura don't talk or see each other any more because she found out
I slept with the boy Scott in the end :/) well...this boy that she was
seeing weeks ago (Adam) and no longer is seeing...we were at a party
and he tried to get with me and I said "NOPE, I don't want laura to
hate me even more than she already does" BUT lauras close friend came
over to me and said "just kiss adam, laura isn't seeing him any more
they aren't together and you and her aren't even friends any more so
why should she be bothered and you aren't doing anything wrong like
betraying a friend are you? so go for it, adam really likes you!" so i
took the chance and listened to lauras friends words....i kissed him.

And now...I find out...Laura knows that I kissed Adam at the party and
she is pissed off about it even though.....we aren't friends any more,
we don't talk, i haven't spoke to her in months, she doesn't even
acknowledge me when i pass her in the street, she isn't in a
relationship with adam and he doesn't like at all.

And today Adam invited me round his house and I went and Laura and her
friends were saying that it is wrong for me and Adam to see each other
:S even the girl at the party (Lauras friend) who told me to kiss
Adam...and she is denying it to people that she told me to kiss him.

I am getting verbal abuse for this..they have even posted public jokes
about me on facebook (but haven't mentioned my name in them but i know
they are about me) it's so much drama for me at the moment. Please can
somebody give me advice on what to do etc :(? thanks

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